Crazy Stalker Chicks (guest appearance)
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This one goes out to all of the mentally impaired woman that I have had the sad pleasure of crossing paths with. Unfortunately you are the exact type that will "know" that this is not about you, it is. This is about you if you have the uncanny ability to decode passwords of your "boyfriend's" cell phone, my space, email, etc. Anyone who thinks to do this, much less is able to accomplish it, has way too much time on their hands. I have a great idea, how about you go to school, or get a job beyond a retail establishment or waitress? Or better yet, put a little focus on decoding yourself. If you put as much time into working on your mental instabilities as you do driving by his house, place of employment, or what bar you think he is at picking up other women, you may be able to improve yourself ever so slightly.
And when you "open yourself up" to a guy on the first date, or first week of dating, and he in return tells you he loves you or you are the best thing since sliced bread - he is lying and you have sealed your fate all on your own.
Another thing, if you call, text, or email him once - he got it and if he didn't reply immediately he quite possibly could be taking a dump, be in a meeting, or just not want to deal with your insecure behind. And if that is the case, why can you not have the self respect and dignity not to continually try to contact him like a collection agent? And here is a tip, less is more - always.
When the time has come that he has used you up to his liking and decides to leave your text messages, emails, and phone calls unanswered, don't go crazy on him. Have a little pride in yourself and don't confirm to him that you are the psycho that he thought you were. And maybe, just maybe if you ignore him he will think twice. He may think he made a mistake and come back. But I know, you have that nervous twitch. Every time the phone rings, you look at it in your sweaty little hand and your heart drops when it is just the PI calling you to give you your monthly tips.
So to all of you out there that fit this description, I feel sad for you. I hope one day you grow up and realize that you may have OCD or bi-polar disorder or just a complete disregard for yourself and take a trip to the shrink and sort those demons out. My Best!
It's definitely the dude's fault
There is no reason for these crazy women to even have your number. If you are more selective about who you allow to contact you then you run into this issue a lot less.
The only reason to freely pass out this information is to invite stalkers to well....stalk.
There are two solutions here. Quit giving your number out to these crazy, psycho women or get a second phone and give them that number. If you get tired of hearing from them, you can always shut it off and never be bothered again. Turn the phone back on in a month and it should have ended and you can start passing out that number again. If you end up liking her after a sufficient evaluation period, give her your real number.
Boos
The nerve?
How dare you not take the man side of this issue? You have had THE WORST STALKER IN THE HISTORY OF THE WORLD...and done nothing about it. Guaranteed she still doesnt pay utilities. Regardless, you are obligated by man code to agree with every anti woman argument I present. You are officially under review by the man board of directors. Besides...I change my number daily not just to avoid stalkers but people I have known for years as well. It's a great way to cut ties and in case you run into them in the future you have a killer excuse.
call her back!
You men hold he power to stop the stalkers, it's all in your hands. You find your prey, you lay all the compliments on so thick in the beginning. You text back and forth, emails, phone calls, then after you get what you want...POOF* you vanish. This initiates the stalker sequence. Grow some balls! Tell her you don't like her. Tell her the sound of her voice makes you want to rip your ears off and hide them from yourself. Tell her SOMETHING!! Don't tell her you'll call her back or call her later. Above all else... don't tell her you "just want to be friends".
I agree
You are right - the women are not completely at fault. The men should have the gonads to say "I am sorry, I am just not that in to you." But this just lends itself to the girls who don't have the respect for themselves. Unfortunately what girls - people - don't understand is that we get treated the way we allow ourselves to be treated, bottom line. To prove my point - you know the girl - she ALWAYS picks a man who eventually beats her. It isn't the guys fault after punch #1, there is obviously something broken in her. Or the girl who has been cheated on by practically every boyfriend she has ever had - do you think that is just bad luck? Nope, it is her!
We as women need to be happy with ourselves, alone, and realize that we don't need men to be complete. You should be able to go to the movies by yourself and have a good time. And if the thought of that makes you uncomfortable, you may need to take a second look at yourself.
And the moment you feel a sense of desperation while in a relationship you need to leave. Desperation has no healthy place in a relationship or within your heart. You just have to have the guts to call it when you see it.
And this is not directed to you - I don't know you at all - I just wish that women thought more of themselves in general. It makes me sad that the "other" girl went back and forth arguing with you and me and said we are ugly, stupid, etc when the whole time she is just this lost, angry little girl trapped in a cancer patient's ugly body. And as much as I want to really lash out at her, I really just hope she finds it within herself to have the strength to be a stronger woman for her child.
True
Words of wisdom. Agreed.
THANK YOU!!
My cousin is this CRAZY STALKER CHICK you speak of! I coulnd never find the words to tell her, then I came across this blog and emailed it to her! I think she is gonna 'get' it now... reading a mans point of view!
Hopefully said victim can walk around now with out having to look over his shoulder....
THANK YOU
I have a cousin who is this CRAZY STALKLER WOMAN you talk about, I wasnt quite sure how to tell her to get herself in check and that she is scaring the sperm out of his balls, but then I came acorss this blog... and forwarded it to her, this was her response:
"OMG, I hope this is an eye opener for me, that is what I am, no more, for now I stick with Joe, he is so much more into me."
Thank you! Now maybe the 'other' guy can stop looking over his shoulder for CRAZY!!
Your welcome.
Its rare that I get thank you's. This is what the site is all about...People helping people. If I am able to bring to light the mental issues and the general publics instabilities and change a few attitudes then I finally have a use. Keep reading and if you have a thought about something that really ticks you off then please visit the request a topic link on the right and I will help you identify how you truly feel about it. Its a useless talent but a talent none the less.