Crazy Stalker Chicks (guest appearance)
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This is where Technology Meets Marketing
This one goes out to all of the mentally impaired woman that I have had the sad pleasure of crossing paths with. Unfortunately you are the exact type that will "know" that this is not about you, it is. This is about you if you have the uncanny ability to decode passwords of your "boyfriend's" cell phone, my space, email, etc. Anyone who thinks to do this, much less is able to accomplish it, has way too much time on their hands. I have a great idea, how about you go to school, or get a job beyond a retail establishment or waitress? Or better yet, put a little focus on decoding yourself. If you put as much time into working on your mental instabilities as you do driving by his house, place of employment, or what bar you think he is at picking up other women, you may be able to improve yourself ever so slightly.
And when you "open yourself up" to a guy on the first date, or first week of dating, and he in return tells you he loves you or you are the best thing since sliced bread - he is lying and you have sealed your fate all on your own.
Another thing, if you call, text, or email him once - he got it and if he didn't reply immediately he quite possibly could be taking a dump, be in a meeting, or just not want to deal with your insecure behind. And if that is the case, why can you not have the self respect and dignity not to continually try to contact him like a collection agent? And here is a tip, less is more - always.
When the time has come that he has used you up to his liking and decides to leave your text messages, emails, and phone calls unanswered, don't go crazy on him. Have a little pride in yourself and don't confirm to him that you are the psycho that he thought you were. And maybe, just maybe if you ignore him he will think twice. He may think he made a mistake and come back. But I know, you have that nervous twitch. Every time the phone rings, you look at it in your sweaty little hand and your heart drops when it is just the PI calling you to give you your monthly tips.
So to all of you out there that fit this description, I feel sad for you. I hope one day you grow up and realize that you may have OCD or bi-polar disorder or just a complete disregard for yourself and take a trip to the shrink and sort those demons out. My Best!